Love is not always for somebody else.

Through my growing process, one thing that I know I have learned is that the way you give out love says much more about who you are than it does the people you are giving it to. There are so many times especially as Black women, we tend to exert this tremendous amount of energy and love into other people. Black women have always held the “strong, independent” persona, learning how to take care of everyone else before we really have the chance to take care of ourselves.

Self-love is such a major topic these days. You see so many articles on it, but what does it…